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There are some actions that you should avoid when you are thinking about getting back with your ex. The main thing is not to rush into things and risk scaring them off completely.
The worst possible thing you can do is to keep ringing them or texting them, especially at odd times. Many people fall into this trap and it never ever works. This will just make things much worse. It also makes you look desperate which is unattractive.
When you do finally get in contact with each other, things should be kept at a normal level and avoid getting into heated discussions. Silly arguments normally come very easily after a break up, they don’t help your chances of getting your ex back though.
If you ask your ex to take you back and they say no, it is important to just accept this and don’t worry. You don’t want to start throwing insults at them because they turned you down; it will only drive them away further.
Ok so they have said no at first, this isn’t the end of it all though. Hence the importance of keeping things amicable at all times.
Following your ex around or turning up at the same places as them is also not a good idea. Actions such as this are not carried out by a sane person, so you will come across as erratic all the time. So showing up at your ex’s local pub is not a good thing to do. They won’t appreciate it and they will be more determined to stay away from you.
These are just the things you should not do, there are other things that you should do. When you look on the internet, you will find lots of places containing tips to get your ex back which are really worth having a look at.